True Love vs. Infatuation...!!

Most of the relations break because initially they feel its true love but sooner or later they realize that they were wrong. Attraction or infatuation sometimes becomes so strong that we begin to think that its true love. Here is differentiation between two on the basis of my experience. Though I think I am a tyro in this field but still want to share my thoughts. J

1.   Distances make no difference if love is true. Attraction or infatuation is badly affected by distance.

2.   True love never dies even if the relationship does while infatuation is ephemeral.

3.   The strongest point is true love increases with time and if it doesn’t it is constant but never decreases. Infatuation initially grows but it fades with time.

4.   True love starts without any reason and you wonder     how it happened but infatuation has all the visible factors as being obsessed over someone, or feeling lust towards that person.

5.   True love doesn’t depend on how the other person looks or what he/she has but infatuation sees everything and depends on various factors.

6.   Infatuation ends in the breaking up of the relationship with broken hearts but true love never ends. And true love is far more beautiful than any romantic story or fairy tale.

I guess this matter may be of any help to you… :)

Lets laugh.. : ))

There was a man who worked all of his life and saved all of his money. He was a real miser when it came to his money. He loved money more than just about anything, and just before he died, he said to his wife, "Now listen, when I die, I want you to take all my money and place it in the casket with me. I wanna take my money to the afterlife."

So he got his wife to promise him with all her heart that when he died, she would put all the money in the casket with him.

Well, one day he died. He was stretched out in the casket, the wife was sitting there in black next to her closest friend. When they finished the ceremony, just before the undertakers got ready to close the casket, the wife said "Wait just a minute!"

She had a shoe box with her, she came over with the box and placed it in the casket. Then the undertakers locked the casket down and rolled it away. Her friend said, "I hope you weren't crazy enough to put all that money in the casket."

"Yes," the wife said, "I promised. I'm a good Christian, I can't lie. I promised him that I was going to put that money in that casket with him."

"You mean to tell me you put every cent of his money in the casket with him?"

"I sure did. I got it all together, put it into my account and I wrote him a check."

LIFE is meant to help others...

Two yrs PGDM is over now and a flood of memories swept over me while leaving Dehradun. It was the place where I got friends from almost all the parts of the country and had a great fun with all. I feel myself lucky for having good friends and people around me.

Besides my college friends and fun one thing that I’ve learned that fascinates me that how keen and willing are the local people to help others. I deeply admire the attitudes of local people who help others without any reason. They know very well that they won’t get anything in return but they feel happy in doing so.

It is the one thing that I’d be glad to have in my nature. I also want to help others without any reason and never feel any proud in it. I just wish to exert this attitude. And the best help in my opinion is when the person whom you helped could never discover it.

Exam fobia

Exams are something that frightens every student. I never feel like studying, even in exam time. Tomorrow is my paper of Wage and Salary Administration and I felt like blogging.
When I have abundance of free time and literally nothing to do I don’t like to write anything but when tomorrow is my paper, I don’t know anything yet about the subject and I am here to share my great thoughts.
I don’t give a damn whatever come in tomorrow’s paper, I am happy. I wish all the students who are facing exams these days. Be free and feel happy and never afraid of exams just like me… 

Love India or Leave....

“Indian tennis celebrity Sania Mirza is getting married to Shoeb Malik, Pakistani Cricketer.”

This news looks disgraceful to all the Indians. It’s not the Sania Mirza’s fault. Actually we Indians give love, respect and fame to all, even to those who don’t deserve it at all. Of course its Sania’s personal life and she is free to marry anyone but it would be a great insult to whole nation.

I am just shocked at the “Pakistan love” of Sania Mirza. Shahrukh Khan has also expressed his regret on not bidding for Pakistani players in IPL. I just can’t understand that the nation that has given them everything but they are still Pakistani from their heart. I’d suggest Sania Mirza to take Pakistan citizenship, play for Pakistan and never return to India.

If one cannot love India then he/she has no right to stay in India. Sania Mirza and Shahrukh Khan are most welcome to go in Pakistan and live over there only. Their body is in India but heart in Pakistan. It is simply intolerable to any true Indian.

There is something to be happy that many Indian Muslims have shown their strong disapproval for this marriage. Sania should at least think of Ayesha, shoeb’s ex-wife. Sania Mirza has made the whole nation feel shame. We’re no more proud on Sania Mirza but feel disgust in calling her an Indian. Shame on Sania for marrying a Pakistani...

HAPPY days are here Again...!!

I am happy. I don’t know the cause of my happiness I am simply happy. How this happened?
Actually life is very long but still I can’t have everything and everyone in my life. I’ve realized this fact and I am happy now.
If I try my best I am sure I’ll get everything in my life but surely not everyone I wish. Actually I don’t want everyone to be in my life but few.. Leave it. It’s a true fact.

Now when its clear to me that I cant have everyone in my life. Why to bother for all. I don’t want to control anybody’s life but mine.. For those who are not going to be part of my life I wish them best in their lives and those in my life, you’ll sure enjoy and have fun… :)

Season of Love...

So today is Valentine’s Day. All are busy with their partners. Its good and I am happy for that. :)
Let me start with a sms- “To all my friends who are committed: Happy Valentine’s day..! To all my friends who are still single: Happy Independence day:) “

For me it was a hectic day but normal. Nothing special and I think it’s the way this day should be. What’s the reason for celebrating Valentine day? I ask should there be only one day for our loved ones? It’s very depressing to see youth getting made for Valentine day. In this case I totally agree with the ideology of RSS and Bajarang dal. Our Indian culture is full of festivals and we have festivals for all the occasions. Youth India should realize it and must keep away from these so-called festivals.

I am only against valentine day celebration in the current way. All days should be full of love why only one day in a year?